冷眼观爱：女生追求男生的主动边界是什么？

　　waibiaoyuelaoshidenanrenyuerongyichugui，waibiaoyuelaoshidenanren，biaomiankanqilaikaopukekao，danshiqueyunzangzhechuguidegailv。tamendezhangxiangjirenyizhongguishugan，lingrencezhongyuxiangxintayeshizhideyikaohexinlaidebanlv。danshi，zheileilaoshidewaibiaohenyoukenengyangaizhetamendeneixinqiangliebumanhekewangtanxiandetaidu。zheizhongnanrenkenengliyongbierenduiyutamendewuhui，chenzhekanqilaiwuhaiwaibiao，yichuguidexingshizhuixunxincijibingmanzuneixindeyuwang。waibiaodeqizhaxinggaojiewomen，bukeguangpingrongmaopanduanyigerendezhongxinhezhencheng。

　　laoshidewaibiaoxiayunzangzheyouhuoguiji

　　外表的蒙蔽：安定感背后威协

　　waibiaoyuelaoshidenanrenyuerongyichugui，waibiaolaoshidenanrenjirenyizhongkaopuhezhongshidediyiyinxiang，tongchangbeichengzuozhidexinlaidebanlv。tademuguangzhencheng、xintaiqinheli，budeburangrenzaochengyilaixingherenke。danshi，zhengshizheiyangdeduiwaibiaodecaolvfengjianmixin，rangyixielaoshidenanrendedaozaibiaomianshangbaochizhengchangzhijiandeguanxi，danzaishenhouquezuozhemengpianhechuguidejudong。

　　隐藏渴望：心里强烈不满与追求刺激

　　laoshidewaibiaojingchangyangaizhenanrenxinliqiangliebumanhekewang。zaipingwenerkuzaofaweidehunyinli，tamenyexujuedeyayijuxianxing，xinlikewangtishengjushu，tansuoxindecijixingyujiqing。zheileixinliqiangliebumanhezhuiqiucijidekewang，chengweiwomenchuguidedaohuoxian。waibudeyinyouyunvxingdegaoduguanzhu，chengweiwomendiyubuzhudeyinyou。

　　蒙骗的掩藏：角色转变能力

　　waibiaolaoshidenanrentongchangshanyujiazhuanghejiaosezhuanbian。tamennenggoubiaoxiandewenwenruya，qianxunyouli，jirenyizhongqianxuhezhenchengjuede。zheigenenglirangtamendedaozaihunyinlibaochizhenshidewaibiao，yangaizhezijichuguigerenxingwei。zheizhongyanzangshitamenjikeyizairichangshenghuozhongbaochipinpaixingxiang，hainengzaiwaibianzhuiqiucijibingmanzu。

　　破损的信赖：损害与后悔莫及

　　suoyidangwaibiaolaoshidenanrendechuguigerenxingweibeijiekaishi，tasuochuangjianderenkeguanlitixiyehuigenzhefenlie。banlvmenganjuedaodebudandanshichuguidekuchuhepanbian，gengshencengcideyinggaishiyiwangzuimeihaodehuiyidecaiyiheyihan。chuguinanrenyehuibeiganhouhuimojihekuijiu，yishidaoletadehuangdangerenxingweiduiyujiatinghebanlvdailaideshanghai。

　　当心的视角：不必光凭外表分辨

　　zheiyixianxianggaojiewomen，bukeyiguangpingyigerendewaibiaojiupandingzhongshihechengxin。waibiaolaoshidenanrenhenyoukenengyunzangzhexinliqiangliebumanhekewang，feichangrongyishouwaijieyouhuo。yiner，womenyinggengweidangxin，renzhenlaiguanchahelejieyigerendeshijiliankong，erbujinjinshibeiwaibiaosuomengbi。

　　共通的勤奋：创建牢固之间的关系

　　weilefangzhizheiyiqingkuangdefasheng，chuangjianlaoguzhijiandeguanxiyouweizhongyao。yaobicigongtongfendou，tigaogoutongyulejie，weichiaiqingxinxianyuhuoli。yucitongshi，yeyaoduibanlvweichijingti，buyaomangmujianxinrongmao，shizhongbaochiduiguanliandeguanzhuzijintouru。

　　waibiaoyuelaoshidenanrenyuerongyichugui，zaihunyinshenghuozhong，waibiaolaoshidenanrendechuguigerenxingweishiyigelingrenchijingdeshiqing。danshi，genjudangxindeshijiaohegongtongdeqinfen，womennenggoujianqigengjialaoguhezhongshideguanlian，rangbanlvzhijianderentongheganqinggengweichijiuhexingfu。