情感问答：如何看出男人对你是真心还是短择？

　　chaojiafenshouduifangshuobuheshi，zaiyiduanchaoxixiangchudeganqingli，chaojiashenghuozhongdemaodunzaisuonanmian，dandangbicixintaizuodaodingdianshi，fenshoudexiangfabianhuizisheng。danshi，yigeyiliaozhiwaidezhuanzhedianchuxian，duifangjiujijibiaomingchaojiabingbushidaibiaoguanxibuheshi。zheigeguandiantupolechuantongrenzhinengli，tagaosuwomen，qingganshangdelaogushifoubingbushijinjinshiyinweichaojiadechuxian，dangengzaiyubicishifounenglejie、baorongherangbu。zheiyijielunyinqisisuo：zaiyiduanganqingzhong，dajianengfouzhongxinsikaochaojiadejiazhi，bingjijixunzhaoduice，bingfeisuibiantiaoxuanfenshou？

　　重新思考吵架与分手的关系

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　　探寻冲突的价值和作用

　　chongtushishejiaoguanxizhongwufataobideyibufen，takeyishigoutongjiaoliuheguanxifazhandejihui。chaojiadefenqilaiyuanyubicizhijiandebuyiyangyishi、yaoqiuheqiwang，genjuchongtuxianghupengzhuang，womennenggengjiashenrudilejielingyifang，faxiandewentibingchulitamen。chaojiabingbuyidingyiweizheguanxibuheshi，eryoukenengshiguanxijinyibufazhandekongjian。

　　冷静分析深层原因

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　　养成良好的沟通与理解水平

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　　寻找让步与对策

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　　汇总

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