导师精选：相亲总失败 我要如何对别人坦白非处女身份

　　fenshouhounvshengkenengfuhedebiaoxianshitamenhuichuandachuduiqianrendesilianguanxin，jingchangzhudongzhaolingyifang，bingbiaoxianchufuhedeqidai。tamenkenenghuailianguoqudemeihaohuiyi，biaoshitongyizuochudiaozhengbingchulifenshoudeyuanyin。yucitongshi，tamenhaihuigenjuzhuduofangfa，ruguanxinqianrendeshejiaowangluodongtaixing、xianggongtongdepengyoudatingxiaoxideng，lailejietadeshenghuofangshiheqingxubianhua。zheizhongbiaoxiandoutuxianchunvshengxinliduifuhedexiangwang，tongshiyexiwangzaicigoujianqixianghuzhijiandeganqingqiaoliang。

　　他们的小心思无法割舍

　　fenshouhounvshengkenengfuhedebiaoxian，fenshouzhihou，nvshengkenenghuiduiqianrensinianzhiqingnanyigeshe，zheileineixinshenchudezhengtuohuitixianzaitamenyantanjuzhidangzhong。tamenhuichangchangxiangqiyuqianrenhuandudemeihaohuiyi，duijiushihuaizhehuiyihelianlianbushe，chixutidaoyiwangshenghuodediandi。bulunshiyuguimiliaotianhuoshizuodaojingmidejiaoluo，tamendeyanshenzhongliuluchuduilishiganqingdejuannian，biaoxianchutamenqipanzhongguiyuhaojuexin。

　　积极表述关怀和联络

　　weilenengzaicixieshoubingjian，nvshengyibanhuicaiyongjijixingdonglailianluoqianren。tamenbuhuizaiyinzangzijideguanhuaiheguanxin，fanershidapojiangju，jijitongguodianhua、weixinhuoshoujiyuqianrenlianluo。tamenhenyoukenengxunwenduifangdexiankuang，guanxinduifangdeshenghuohegongzuoqingkuang，biaodazijiduiqianrendesilianduifuhedeqiwang。zheileijijidejiaoliugerenxingwei，shuomingnvshengzaoyizugouyonggan，nenggouweifuhefuzhunuli，tongshiyexiwangfujianqilianluo。

　　情绪变化的表现与求爱数据信号

　　weilenengrangqianrenrenshidaozijidezhenxinshiyiyujuexin，nvshenghaihuitongguogezhongtujingbiaodaduifuhedexiangwang。tamenhenyoukenenghuisuijisongshangyifenlipin，xiechuyifengzhenchengdezhiqianxinhuoaidegaobai。zheiyangdexingweidaibiaozhetamenduiyufuhechengnuohechengxin，qidainenggouzaicidedaoqianrenderenkehelijie。tamenkenengjijikaizhanyitongzijixihuandezhutihuodong，zhudongyaoqinglingyifanggongdushiguang，yongshijixingdongbiaoxianzijiyijingzuohaodiaozhenghetuibiandetiqianzhunbei。

　　注意社交网络和朋友圈

　　nvshengfenshouzhihou，haihuizhuyiqianrendeshejiaowangluodongtaixinghepengyouquan。tamenhuigaoduguanzhuqianrendeshenghuofangshi，guanzhutadeganqinggaibianhegerentisheng。tamenkenengguanzhudianzan、pingjiaqianrendezhaopianhuodongtaixing，tongguogezhongjianjiexingdefangshibiaodaduiqianrendeguanzhuguanzhu，yexiwangzaochenglingyifangdeguanzhubingjifaduifuhededuitan。chucizhiwai，tamenhaihuixianggongtongdepengyoutantinglingyifangdezuixinxiaoxi，bingbazheixiexinxineirongzuoweifuhetantaochouma。

　　积极主动更改与解决分手的原因

　　nvshengyishidaolefuheyaojiejuefenshoudeyuanyin，tamenhuijijiduizijijinxinggenggai，bangzhujiejuemaodunhewujie。tamenkenengjijifanshengzijizaiganqinglidebugou，xunzhaogenggaihechengzhangdelujing，yiqidainenggouzhongxinzijintouruganqing，bingheqianrenyiqimianduinanti。zheileijijidexintaiziwogaibianjianchibuxiedenuli，nengrangqianrenkandaotamenduifuhedejuexinhechengxinchengyi。

　　自我调整和接受实际

　　nvshengyejiangmianlinziwodiaozhenghemianduixianshideyigeguocheng。suirantamenqipanfuhe，queyegaoqingchufuhebingfeidanfangmianqueding。tamenhuijinliangjienafenshoukeguanshishi，bingxuehuigaibianzijidetaidu，zaicixiangshoukuailehexingfu。tamenkenengjijigenggaishenghuodangzhongxiguanshejiaoquan，tansuoxindegerenaihaohejiaojiquan，yirangzijibiandegengjiadandugengjiachengshu。zheizhongziwodiaozhengbujinyouliyunvshengdefazhan，haikeyiweijinhoudeganqingdailaigengduodegailv。

　　fenshouhounvshengkenengfuhedebiaoxian，zongdelaishuo，fenshouzhihounvshenghenyoukenengbiaoxianchuqianrendesilianguanxin，zhudongzhaolingyifang，chuandachufuhedeqidai。genjuhuailianguoqu、gaibianxianzhuang、biaoshuchengxindengweixiaodexingwei，tamenchangshizaicigoujianqiyuqianrendeganqingqiaoliang。danshi，fuhebingfeiyicuerjiu，nvshenghuitongguoziwodiaozhenghemianduixianshiquchuliqingganshangdezhuanbian，weizijideaiqingzhaochulu。