冷爱：内向的女生与异性相处社交困难怎么办？

　　zaiganqingdaolushang，fenshoushiyizhongchangjiandeqinshenjingli，keshifenshouyihoudexinlibianhuaqueshiyigebukehushidehuatitaolun。neiyang，fenshouduojiunvshenghuixiangfuheni？zheiyiwentikunraozhehenduoren。youyixienvshenghuoxuhuizaihenduandeshijianneixuyaofuhe，youyufenshouzhihoudesilianguduyingraoxintou；erlingyixienvshengzeyoukenengbixubijiaozhangdeshijianlaidiaozhengqingxuhezhongxinsikaoganqing。meiyigerenfuheshijiandouyousuobutong，taqujueyugerendexinxu、guowangdejingliyijishuangfangzhijiandegoutong。yiner，buguanshiyishidefenshouhoufuhe，yeshixuyaohenzhangshijiandetansuoyuchengzhang，douyinggaizunzhongmeiyigerendeganjue，bingxunzhaodaozuishihedeshijianduanlaizhongxinzhuixunxingfu。

　　心灵深处的离岸账户景色

　　fenshouduojiunvshenghuixiangfuhe

　　zaiganqingzhongqinshenjinglifenshoushiyiduanbeishanglvcheng，erfuhenaishiyiciguanlijuecechengzhangzhilu。butongleixingdenvshengzhenduifuhedeniantouhenyoukenengyousuochayi，zaiyugerendeqingganguocheng、xinggetezhenghefenshouzhihoudexinxubodong。

　　时间：治伤或提高?

　　fenshouzhihoudenvshenghuigenjufenlichulailaizhishang，diaojiezijidexinqinghexinlizhuangtai。zheiyidiaojiedeshijianbingbushiquelide，youyumeigerendouyoubutongdeminganduhehuifusulv。duiyuyixienvshenglaijiang，fenshouyishunjianhuichanshengfuhedexiangfa。tamenkenengjuedefenshoujinjinyishichongdongbale，fuhekeyimashangxiubuposundeganqing。danshi，yeshiyounvshenghuishenzhongkaolv，xuyaogengduoshijianqusikaofenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin、lianggerenzaiganqingzhongdenanti，jiqifuhehoushifoukeyigenghaodegaijinqingkuang。

　　单独与独立：再次做回自己

　　fenshouyeshiyicizhongxinxunzhaoziwoyishidejiyu。nvshengzaibaituochuganqingjushuhou，yehuifaxianzishenxuzhongxinchuangjiandanduhezizhu。zheiyiduanshijianshitamenzaicizhuizhumengxiang、fazhanqushigerenxingquaihaohepeiyangzixindeshiqi。zaizheiguochengzhong，fuhehuoxubushitamendeshouyaomubiao。tamenkenengtourugengduodeshijianyujinglizaizijideweilai、xueyehegerentishengshang，jinerzhongxinsuzaozijidejiazhiherenshengguihua。

　　交流和修补：再次拉近关系

　　fenshouhou，duanzanzhouqijishuangfangdailailezhongxinsikaoganqing、goutongjiaoliuhehuifudehaojihui。nvshengzaineiduanshijianlikenengfansheng，shenshizijizaiganqingzhongdewentihexuyaogaijindedifang，jiqiduifangjianjiehetihui。tamenhenyoukenenghuizhudongheduifangzhankaiduihua，biaodazijisilianxiangyaochangshizaicixiubudexinyuan。zheigeguochengxuyaobicizhijiandekaifangzhencheng，yizaicigoujianqirentonghegongtongdemubiao。

　　感情平衡：再次深思熟虑

　　fuhexuyaoshuangfangjingguoshenzhongkaolvyuxinlipingheng。nvshengxuyaoduifenshoudeyuanyinjifuhezhihoudegenggaiyouqingxiderenzhi，erqieyishidaolefuhebingbushijiejueyiqiewentishendanmiaoyao。tamenbixushensishulvfenshouchanshengdeshangtonghefuheshikenengyudaodewenti。fujianganqingxuyaoshuangfangdenulihegenggai，bingqiezaizheiguochengzhongyidingyaobaochiduizishenxuqiuhejiexianzunzhong。

　　内心深处：再定位

　　buyiyangnvshengzhenduifuhedeniantoushijianzhangdukenenghuiyingerenchengzhangjingli、xinlichengshuduheganqinggongzuojingyanbutongergeyoubutong。youxienvshengkenenghuizaifenshouyihoudeyishunjianzaochengfeichangqiangliefuheyixiang，eryouxienvshengzeyoukenengbixubijiaozhangdeshijianlaizaidingweiziyideganqinghexunzhaoxingfudefangxiang。meigerenyoumeigerendexinlixiangsheng，zheishengyinjiangyindaotamenzuochushihezijideguanlijuece。

　　fenshouduojiunvshenghuixiangfuhedehuidabingbushidanyide。shijianhegerendeqingganfazhanshizhuyaoyinsu，danzaifuhezhiqianxuyaogerendexinlingpinghenghegongtongfendou。wulunshixuanzeshizhefuhehaishixuanbufuhe，douyingyizijixingfuhexinlingshenchudelianzhanghujingseweidaoxiang。