花镇情感咨询：该不该向现任坦白过往恋爱史

　　fenshoulaheiduojiuhuifangchulai，dangchuxianfenshouhou，youshihouwomenhuixuanzebaduifanglahei，yifangzhijinyibushanghaijiufenanjian。danshi，zailaheiyihou，womenbujinsisuo：daodixuyaoduozhangshijiancainengxiaochulaheini？zheiyiwentichudonghenduorendexin。yexushijiri、jigexingqi，shenzhishuyue，shifangfenshoulaheiderenyuhuifuxinlaijiandeguochengbingbuyiyang。zaizheiyangyigeguochengzhong，chenjixintai、fansiwenti、zhuixunziwochengzhanghexiubu，yexunengweiwomenkaiqishifangdedamen，chanshengzhonglianyudiaojie。

　　茫然之时，等候的美好时光

　　fenshou，daibiaozheyiduanganqingdejieshu，zeyiweizhehenyoukenengzaochengdeshanghaihepibei。zaijinglifenshouhou，lianggerenzhijiandegoutongjiaoliuyoukenengbeizhongduan，erqizhongyifanghuijianglingyifanglahei。zheigexuanzejingchangranglingyifangxincunkunhuoyumangran——daodixuyaoduozhangshijiandeshijianye，cainengshifangfenshoulaheiderenni？

　　youxierenshuo，shijianzuihaodeliangyao。zaineiduanyihuoderizili，beilaheideyifangyexuhuigandaowuliyujiaolv。bukeyiheduifanggoutongjiaoliu，meifalejiebicizhijiandexiankuang，zheileiwufayuliaodebuquedingganlingrennanyijingxiaxin。danshi，zheiyiduandenghoudemeihaoshiguang，huoxuwangwangshibeilaheiderenzhongxinshenshiziji、zhenglisixu、fansiwentidebaoguijihui。

　　反省与反思，重构关联的概率

　　fenshoudexiangfayoukenengshiyishidechongdongyuqingxufaxie，danzailaheizheiyiduanlizhiderizili，beilaheideyifanghaiyoujihuikaizhanziwofansihesikao。tamenyexuhuifanshengzijizailianaizhongdebuzuyubuzhengque，yexuehuisikaolingyifangdaodizhibuzhidejiyudiercijihui。zheileifanshengyufansi，youliyuzhonggouguanliandegailv。yexuzaiyiduanshijianhou，denghouyejiangdailaigengjiandingheanpailianghaodexintai，laimianduizhongxinqidonghuihua，lingtingbicizhijiandeneixinxuqiuheyouhua。

　　信赖再苦再难，关联的改造

　　fenshouzhihoudejiechuxianzhiyushifang，bidingqianshedaozhongjianxinrendeguocheng。laheishiweilebaohuziji，yeshijiyuduilingyibanbuxinren。zaijiefengzhihou，xiufubeilaheizheheyuanlailianxidezhengchangjiaoliuxuyaoyiduanshijianyuxixin。beilaheideyifangxuzhanxianzhenchengyugenggai，genjuyantanjuzhiquzhonggoulingyifangderenke。erlaheideyifang，zexuyaojiyujihuihexinrenkongjian，ganyuyixinhuixinmendakai。zheiyiguochengbingfeiyishi，zheixuyaoyaoqiudezouxiangchengshubicizhijiandezhenchenghenuli。

　　慢慢解除拉黑的束缚

　　fenshoulahei，shiyizhongzaiganqingshoushangshihoudeziwofangyujizhi。danshi，suiyuebuhuitingzhi，richangshenghuodoubuhuizhibubuqian。zaijinglifenshoudekuchu、denghouyufansiyihou，yexuhenduorendouhuiwangjiguoqudeshufu，xiaochulahei。zheibingfeiyicuerjiudeguocheng，ershiyizhongmanzhangxiufuyuchangkaixinfeideguocheng。zaiwomenzhenzhenzhengzhenghuifuqilai，xiangyaozhongxinmianduiduifangshi，yexuwomenjiunengjiechulaheidekouzi，zhujianquanyigexindegushi。

　　时长给与回答，心里痊愈重新启动

　　fenshoulaheiduojiuhuifangchulai，meiyougudinghuida。zheishiyiduanguocheng，shiyigerenxiubuneixindelvcheng。shijiannengdaijiwomenhuida，gaojiewomenshenmeshihouxiaochulahei。erdengdaiyumingxiangxunlianderizili，dajiaxuyaoxuehuizhaoguziji、jienazijideqingxu，jianjiandirangxinliquanyu。dangfenshoudeshangtongmanmanjiangdi，yexuwomenjiukeyicongxindekaishikaolv，heduifangzaiciqudelianxi，xunzhaoyizhonggengjiachengshu、gengjiajiankangguanlian。