冷爱：女生该如何正确地表达没安全感

　　dangaiqingdehuomiaobuhuizaishanliang，dajiajuedingyongganjieshouxianshi。zaiyiduanchongchizhezhuiyilvchenghou，zhongyudengdaolegaobiedeshike。wojuedinggennanpengyoutifenshou。zheiyebushicongmangdejuece，fanershijingguoshenzhongkaolvchulaidejieguo。woxiwangbicizhijiankeyizhaodaobijiaoshihederen，huodegengchixudexingfu。bawomengongtongdemengxiangyumeihaobaocunzaixinjian，rangfenshoubianweiwomengezixindeqidian。

　　悲伤道别

　　dangaidelimingmanmanxiaotui，womenbixuyaomianduiyigewufamomiezheiyishishi -- womenyinggaigennanpengyoutifenshou。xianzaishishihoujiechuneiyifenqingganshangdeshufu，rangwomenshengmingzhaodaoxindechukou。

　　冷淡暗生

　　wangridexingfushiguangxianrujinyishimotu，womenzijidegongchuyuelaiyuekuzaowuwei。bulunshiqianquegongtonghuati，huoshibicijiandelengdan，doushizaimanmanfushiliangrendeguanxi。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，fenshouyishizaisuonanmiantiaoxuan。

　　追寻自我

　　dajiaderenshengyundongguijizhujiangebendongxi，lixiangmanmanbenmodaozhi。yexu，fenshounengrangwomenzaicizhaodaozishen，xunmizijidulideshiyongjiazhiyuyiyi。zheibingbushichuziyuguyi，gengshiweilerangwomendounenggouzhuiqiuxinlingzhenzhenzhengzhengdexiangwang。

　　释放出来困惑

　　aiqingdeyaliyuelaiyuehouzhong，dajiagengjiajuedeshenxinpibei。xianrujin，fenshoubianchenglexiufuxinlingziyouyuqingroudezuijiatujing。xiaochuzheixiekunhuowomenzijidedanxinyuzhengduo，rangwomenzaicihuanfahuolitaruxinderenshenghuanjie。

　　爱已消退

　　yiqianreqingruhuodeganqingzaojiuxiaoshengniji，dajiayuelaiyuebicizhijiandecunyoubuwenbuwen。zaiyebuhuiaiqinghuohuazaiwomenzhijiandantiao，dajiadoubuyuanyizailunluozaixubaodeguanxizhong。gennanpengyoutifenshou，shiweilerangbicizhijianzhaodaoyigegengjunongnongdeaiyijianglai。

　　拾起胆量

　　fenshoubingbushirouruo，ershiyizhongyonggantiaoxuan。womendouyaozhuixunzhenzhengdekuaile，jibianzheijiuyiweizheyaomianlinzuitongkudegezi。zhiyoudangwomenjiandingdimaichuzheiyibu，caikeyiweizijichuangzaoxindejiyu，zhaodaoneiyigekeyishenrulejie、rentongheaixidajiaderen。

　　将来的开启

　　fenshoubushizhongdian，fanershixindeqidian。jiangguoquyihan、tongkuyushangbaliudaozhuiyixiaojiaoluo，womenyaochongjingweilaidemeimiao。fenshoubingbudengyuwomenyaochediwangjilingyifang，ershifenbiederenshenglvxingzhongbicizhuyuan，zaicijinbuyuchengzhang。

　　自身满足

　　womendouyinggaiweizijifuze，baohangennanpengyoutifenshouzheiyijiannandexuanze。womenyaoxuehuifangxiajiandandekuaile，weilezijizhangqixingfuerxingwei。meiyigewanbidoushiweiyiduanxindeqidian，genjufenshou，dajiarangniyoujiyuzhaodaogengqiangderenhegengmeihaodeweilai。

　　友善分手

　　gennanpengyoutifenshoubingbudengyuwomenyaobianchengduishou。fanguolai，womenyaoyiyouhaodefangfawanbizheifenganqing，rangshuangfangyizuixingfudefangshiliqu。youshanfenshoukeyijianshaoshanghaifuzadeganqing，weibicizhijianbaoliuyifennanwangdehuiyi。

　　寻觅真正

　　fenshoudejuecerangwomenhaiyoujihuizhuixunzhenzhengdeziwo。bingmeiyouaideshufu，womenkeyizhimianzijixinlizhenzhenzhengzhengdexiangwang，chedigaibianrenshengdeyiyi。gennanpengyoutifenshouhuoxushiyigetongkudeguocheng，dantahuirangwomenmaixianggengzhunque、gengsuixinsuoyudejianglai。

　　一往无前

　　gennanpengyoutifenshoushiweilebaituoshufu，shifangchulaizijidexinling。jinguanzheiyiguochenghuiyinfatongkuyushiwang，danshizhiyouyonggandequmianduihejiejuewenti，dajiacainengzhujianhuodeziyouheneixindeningjing。baituokunjing，womenyongwangzhiqian，yingjiemingtianyangguang。