男神看了都想撩的朋友圈，堪称人生赢家！

jitianqian，meilanxinggaocailiedizhaodaowo，shuoyougenanshenjibiedexiaogegejiataweixin。

 jitianhou，meilanyouzhaowole，butongdeshi，zheiyicishichuitousangqi。yuanlaishineigexiaogegeyizhimeiyouzhaotaliaotian，houlaicaifaxianduifangshanleta。

ouerpaopaobu、lianlianyujia、meishizuogefan，xianxialaikanbenshu，zheixiedoushihenhaodeticai。

“jiandanyouqudepengyouquan”zhanshichuwomendejingzhishenghuo，bushidenghongjiulv，zhishijiandandepengyou，jiandanderichang。

youqudelinghun、huayuzhijianyouqudanbujiaoqing。

02

展现自己的大格局和学识

shuoqigeju，henduonvrenhuijuedezheiyuzijiwuguan，juedenvxingzuizhongyaodejiushiwenroukeren、shanjierenyi。

 qishibushi，lianggemoshengnannvshifounengzouzaiyiqishiqujueyuxiyinli，erxiyinliwangwanglaizigongtongdehuati，jiandandeshuojiushi“liaodelai”。

 youyuxingbiehechengzhangdechayi，nanxingdeshiyeyibandoubinvxingkaikuo，guanzhudeshiqingyegengjiaguangfan，tongshiduirenshengheshiyedeyaoqiuyegenggao。

1、分享人生感悟

zipaizhaozhishiduiwomenwaizaixingxiangdecankao，eryigerendeneihan，caishizhangjiudemeili。

pingshikeyixieyidianzijiduishenghuodeganwu，fenxiangzijideguandian。

 liru：yitiandezongjie，jizijideguli，xuedaodedongxi，xindetihui，qingganzhufudengdeng。jishouzijixihuandegequ，kandaobijiaojingdiandejuzihewenzhang。danshijinliangshaofafumianxiaojideneirong。

 ruguozhengtianfashangbeichunqiu，manmanfunengliangdeneirong，zheibujinshirangzijixinqingbuhao，rangkanderenxinqingyesuizhiyumen，yehuijirenliuxiabuhaodeyinxiang。

2、让对方参与到我们的工作中

womenyaoxiangduifangzhanxianwomendeshenghuozhiyu，yederangduifangkandaogongzuozhongdewomen。

 yinweizaimeiyoufazhanchengqinmiguanxizhiqian，nanxingshouxianxiwangkandaodeshiyigezidaiguangmangdenvxingxingxiang，erzaigongzuozhongdenvrenduli、shangjin，huijinanxingyizhongzhitongdaohedeganjue，yehuirangnanxingyouxiangqinjindexiangfa。

03

偶尔透露单身

ruguowomenyaoxiangjiezhupengyouquanxiyingengduoyouzhiyixingdezhuiqiu，neimeshouxianyaobiaomingzijidanshendezhuangtai。

yinweidabufennanshengdesiweidoushijieguodaoxiangxingde，tabixuyaoxianquedingzijishiyoujihuide，caihuifachuzhuiqiudejudong。

henduorenzaizhanshileisineirongdepengyouquanshi，douhuiguoduoguoshaodezhanshizijideguduganhexuqiugan。

 biruhuizheiyangfa：“yigerendehuijialu，momingyouleyizhonggudugan，zhenxiwangjinhoudechepiaoshuliangnengcongyizhangbianchengliangzhang。”、“jintiancanjialeguimidehunli，huiqudelushangkudexilihuala，buzhidaoshenmeshihou，zijiyenengchuanshangzheimeilidehunsha。”

ruguowomenzongshizheiyangzhishuxiongyidehua，womenneixindexuqiuganjiuhuibaoluwuyi，yehuirangbierenduiwomendejiazhibiandi。

 womenkeyiyongzheiyangdefangshilaianshizijishidanshen，biru：“yigerendedianyingpiao、yirenfendewancan、yigerendelvxingdengdeng。”youhuozhe“danshen，shiyichangxiuxing”、“youqudedanshen，shengguojiangjiudeaiqing”zheiyangdewenzi，chuandidexinxikenengjiuhuishizheiyang：“woxiangshoudanshen，danwoyekewangzhenai”。

 buguozaianshidanshendetongshiyeyaojideshidangzhanshizijideyixingyuan，biruouerzhanshizijishoudaodeliwu，juhuipaizhaoshizhanzaiyouzhiyixingzhongjiandeng。

 zheiyangbudannengdaxiaobierenjuedewomenshiyixingyuanchacaidanshendegulv，haihuirangbierenjuedewomenzaiyixingzhonghenyoushichang，congerdadazengjiawomendejingzhengyoushi。

 zaixiaodequanzi，doushiyigejianghu，tebieshizaizheigegezhepingmude“dianzanzhijiao”niandai，nizaipengyouquanlideyiyanyixing，douxiangyikuaikuaipintuyiyang，huipincouchubierenduinideduoxing、shenmeihesanguanderenzhi。

manmandezhengnengliang，xiaosadeshenghuo，zhenggeshijiedouyangguangmingmei。zheicaishifapengyouquandezhengquezishi！

guniangmen，laibaihaozishifapengyouquanba！

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