冷眼观爱：真正值得你托付终生的人，不需要你去挽留

　　laogongchuguiguimicongmingdezuofa，dangzhangfuchuguishi，guimichengxianletacongmingzhihui，caiquleyixilieqiaomiaodixingweilaichulizheizhongqingkuang。tabingmeiyoubaochichenmoheweiqu，fanershiguoduandehaiji。genjujingmingdeduice，tayongzixinyuzhihuichongmanzhezijideneixinshineikongjian。tabudanlijieleshiqing，haiyaozhihuipojielekunjing。tayongdandingcongrongyuzizunxinlaimianduizheiyipanbian，wanliuzijidezunyanhunyinshenghuo。zheigegushigaojiewomen，qingshanggaodenvrenburongyilunluoyusunhaidangzhong，fanershinengyizhihuihexinxinlaimianduishenghuolidekaoyan，zuihouxunzhaozijideaiqing。

　　1. 一个女人的智慧智谋

　　laogongchuguiguimicongmingdezuofa，dangzhangfuchuguishi，guimizhangxianleyouyidezhihuihecongmingzhihui，weicijiejuezheiyijishoudewentijushi。tabingbushitiaoxuanbeitong、zhengzhihuobeishousunhai，fanershilizhisikaobingzhidingleshidudeyingduicuoshi。

　　2. 现实生活的觉悟

　　guimidiyishijianjieshoukeguanshishidekepa，bingmeiyoutaobidoumeiyouduobi。tayonglizhidesiweilaikandaizheizhongqingkuang，buxuqingxuhexintaguanlijuece。tagaoqingchushitaiyanzhong，bingxinxinzhaodaoyigejiejuefangfa。

　　3. 探寻真相

　　jingmingdeguimibingmeijuxianzaicaiyizhong，taxiashoutanxunquezaozhengjulaiyanzhenglaogongyuguimijiandepanbian。taxixinsoujiziliao，yunyongshejiaowangluohegezhongqudao，kuaisulijieleshiqing。lingtayongyougengyouxiaodezhangwo，zhengshijinruxiayijieduan。

　　4. 解决问题的对策

　　guimiquedingcaiyongshenzhongermingzhidexuanzexingweilaimianduizheiyihunyinwenti。tameixuanzejiqiezuochujueding，fanershilizhisikao，bingheshenpangderenkerenyuanxunqiujianyiyuzhichi。tacongrongdejianlilefangan，bingjinshendejinxingyixiliexingwei，yibaozhangzishenquanyihezizun。

　　5. 矛盾与对战

　　zuihou，guimihezhangfuheguimidechongtumanmangengxin。tajiandingbuyideweihuzijilichanghesixiang，juebutuoxieyebutuirang。tashishileshiyidefangfa，rangzhuyaofangzaichengzhangjiaoyuhezunyanshang，erfeishenxianzhengzhiyutongkudangzhong。lingtahuodeleyouyidejielun。

　　6. 改变自我和未来

　　qinshenjinglizheiyichangshijianhou，guimibuhuizaishiyigebeidongjieshouzhanyouzhe，tadongdelezhongsuzijideshenghuoyuweilai。tashelilejianqiangdexinnengliangyuzixin，dingyileyinweitashigerenhuonvxingdejiazhi。taqinfenzhuiqiudemengxianghemubiao，dazaoleyigeyuelaiyuemeihaodulideshenghuo。

　　7. 悬壶济世的感情

　　zuizhong，jingmingdeguimihenhaodichulileyuzhangfuxianghuguanxi。genjuzhenchenggoutongyubicizhijiandeqinfen，tamenshiqilexinlai，shelilegengweilaogudeganqingdejichu。erzheicizainanyechengweiwomenchengzhangyugaijinhunyinshenghuodejihui，ranglianggerendeaiqinggengweifengfuhezhangjiu。

　　laogongchuguiguimicongmingdezuofa，buguanmianduinazhongjiannan，jingmingdeguimidounenggoujishangyike。tazhihui、lizhihejianjuejiwomenmenzhanxianleyizhongzhunqueerjijizhudongdeqingxudiaojie。tabudanhenhaodijiejuelehunyinwenti，yezhonggouleziwodejiazhihemeihao。zheigegushijilizhewomen，jiaodaowomenniyaoyongganmianduijiannan，tanxunshidudefangshiqujiejuewenti，zuihouzhaodaozijidexingfukuaile。