如何避免总是掉入渣男的坑？

 dianying《beixianqidesongzideyisheng》chuozhonglehenduorendexin：mianduilengkudejiatingheshehui，songzicongweiyouguoshengcundefengxi，tajiuzijijijixunzhaoshengcundechukou。meiyourenhedifangxuyaotahuoxiaqu，binghuoderelie，danshiqianchuangbaikongdeaiqingkeyi。

songzideyisheng，shiyouyigeyouyigeyouxinggequexiandenanrenzuchengde。

 yingwaidewomen，guankanzhezaizheigenvrenshenshangshangyandemingyundeguijue，budongsongzijiujingzuocuoleshenme，cairangyiciyouyicideshanghai，bianchengletamingyundeguishu。

 yushibudebuanzisicun：zheibeixianqidesongzideyisheng，yizhirucidereliehechuncui。zhongqiyishengdeaiyuxunzhao，quezhongjiushimeinengzhaodao，neigenengjiangtawenrouyidaideren。

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如何避免总是掉入渣男的坑？

1、悦纳自己

jiangdiduizijiguogaodeqixu，keyiliechuzijidewugeyoudianhewugequedian，yangzhangbiduan。

 biruzijihenyouyuyantianfu，keyichangshizhexiezuo、yueduwenxue、wenyixiangguandeshuji，peiyangzijizheifangmiandezhangchu。ruguozijishuohuadeluojixingjiaoruo，keyizhenduixingdekanzhuanyeshuji，shulizijidetiaoli。

 yekeyixiexiaxinshangzijidewujianxiaoshi。tongguozheixiediandidejiluheduiziwodeguancha，rangwomenyuelaiyuelejieziji、xinshangziji。

fazhanrangzijiganjuedaokuaile、chongshihemanzudenengli，rangzijiganjuedaokaixin，shiyizhongbuduantansuoziwodefangshi。

 buyaoguoduochenjinzaizijidefumianqingxuzhong，yebuxuyaokangjuhefoudingta，keyimanmandekaizhanrichanggongzuo，birudiedieyifu、xieriji、tongguotuyajingxin，huozhezuojiawu。zheixieyouwanchengxingdexiaoshi，huirangqingxurushuizhangyunxiaobanmanmandeguoqu。

 zhidaozijizuoshenmexiaoshihuikaixin，zaibukaixinshi，yongrangzijikuailedeshiqudiaojiheanweiziji。erbuhuijinxianyufaxieshidegouwuheshuaju。

 keyitongguoxiangxiangshenchumougechangjingrangzijifangsong，guanxiangyiduohuadeyanse、xingzhuanghecengci，huozheguanxiangzijishenchuyubibodangyangdedahaibian，xixiweifengchuiguojifu，erbianxiangqileshuyedeyaoye。

2、学会独处

 dangjiarenhepengyoudalaidianhuashi，zongchuandichutamenduiwomendeguanxin，dandangtamenyinweimangliuerwufapeibanwomenshi，womenhuigandaogudu、diluo，shenzhihuiziwohuaiyi。

erzheixiesuizhierlaideqingxubingbunengbangdaowomenshenme，womennengzuodejiushiyouyishidixunlianzijishiyingmeiyoutarenderizi。

shizhebuquyingherenherendeqidai，zuozijixihuandeshi。

 biruwozijihenxihuanhuahua，suoyiyoushihouwohuiyongyiduankongxiandeshijianhuahua。jiangkandaoderenhexiyinzijideshiwuhuaxialai，huozhejinjinshisuiyidetuya。

keyizhoumoqugongyuan，ganshouyixiabeishumuweiraodeqingxinkongqi，xiangshouzheizhongningjingdetongchang。

changshitingyixiewangshangdemingxiangheyujiake，tongguoqingroudeyinleheyindaoxingdejiangjie，rangwomendetounaogengjiadefangsongheqingxing。

 zaihezijixiangchudeshihou，womentongchanghuiyouyizhongheshijianrongweiyitideganjue，zheihuibangzhuwomengengjiadakaiziji，aishangziji。zaijienazhenshidezijiyihou，cainengpujiutongwangaiqingdedaolu，duisheidoubuliwai。

 zaisongzidexinzhong，neigeyoutongkuzhengdezuojia，jitadeshengmingliuxialezhenzhengdewennuan。tashizhongxiangxin，tashiweiyiyigezhenzhengaiguozijidenanren。yinweizaizheiduanganqingli，tashimeiyoufancuodenayige。

congzheilijiukeyikanchu，qishitazhuixundeganqing，jiushiduijienazijideganqing。

zhishisongzideaitaiguorelie、mangmu，rutongyiwangwuqiandepubu，yizhiguoxiezhebeitahushideziwo，chongdaoleshengmingdezhongdian。

 zaiyigemingmeidexiawu，songzisile，danshitazhongyumingbai——qishineigequxuyaoguanai、hehuheyuanliangderen，bushiqitaderenheren，zhengshizijia！

 “shengerweiren，baoqian。”songziliuxialezheiyangdehua。ruguonenggouzaihuoyicidehua，xiwangwomendounengzhaohuiziji，zhaohuizhenzhengzhengzhengshuyuzijideaiqing。

duiyusongzieryan，womenbuyinggaizaibierendegushili，jixuqianzeziji。duiyuwomenzijieryan，youhechangbushini？

xiwangzaiganqingzhonglvlvshoushangdewomen，nengyongsuiyue，jiangzijiwenrouyidai，huanlaizuizhenzhideaiqing。

文|柳橙芝