【花镇】婚前男人物质投入少，这样的婚姻能不能要

　　zaihunyinshenghuozhongchanshengfenqihemaodunshichangyoudeshi，danshiruofaxianzijilaogongmanmanshengshuhuozhechuxianlixinshidezhengzhao，gaizenyangwanhuilaogongni？wanhuilaogongbixulijietadeyaoqiuheguanxin，bingqieyizhenchenghewenroudefangshihetagoutongjiaoliu，tanxunyitongjiejuewentidefangfa。chucizhiwai，fujianxinren、gaijintamendexingweihetishenggoutongdejiqiaodoushiwanhuilaogongdeguanjiansuozai。zaizheiguochengzhong，yingdangduoyidiannaixinhezhenxinshiyi，xiangxinyouyitianbicigongtongfendou，jiuhenyoukenengzhongxindianranaidehuoyan，fujianmeimanhunyin。

　　探寻问题的根源：探寻问题所在

　　zenyangwanhuilaogong，zainizhujianxuyaowanhuilaogongshi，shouxianyaoshendusikaowentidebenzhi。weihelaogonghenishengshu？youkenengshirichanggoutongbudaowei、tamendexingweixiguangaibianhuozhewaizaiyinsudeganshe。nongqingchuwentidehexin，caikeyizhenduixingdifuzhuxingdong。

　　反省与提升自己：重构风采和自信

　　wanhuilaogongdeguochengdangzhong，fanshengbinggaibianziwoshishifenzhongyaode。sikaotamendexingweiheyanyu，shifoucunzainafangmianyoudaigaijinhetigao。qinfentigaozixinxinhejijidexintai，chengxiannineizaifengcai，zailaogongyanqianbengfachulingrenzhemideguanghui。

　　改进交流方式：真诚聆听语言的表达

　　youxiaodegoutongnengxiaochuwuhuihelengdan，suzaogengjiahaodexianghuzhichihexinren。yulaogongkaizhanzhenchengdeduitan，lingtingtadeganshouhejianyi，danshiyeyaozhenxinshiyibiaodaguandianyuxuqiu。zhaodaoyigegongpingjiaoliudeyuyangoutongjiqiao，tuidongshuangfangdeqinggangongmingdian。

　　复建信任：言行一致与诚信相随

　　wanhuilaogongwubijianlizaishuangfangxinrendeqiantixia。shizijideyanxingyizhi，baozhengduitaxuxiadenuoyanyouyidingdexingwei，zhanshichuzhenxinshiyikekaodexintai。fangzhisahuanghemengpian，tanrandimianduikunnan，bingchulidaozhijiedidezhuyaoyuanyin。

　　造就美好记忆：重新点燃爱的火焰与情感互动交流

　　huiyishiqinggandezirun，zaojiumeihaojiyishiwanhuilaogongdeyixiangzhongyaoduice。zhaodaodajiacongqiandeyitonggerenaihao，yiqicanyuhuodong，chuangzaogengduolangmanshike。genjuqingganhudongjiaoliu，ranglaogongzaicitihuidaonimendeguanxinonghouqingganhemeihao。

　　尊重和适用：建立彼此之间的生活空间

　　wanhuilaogongbingbudengyunixuyaoyouxiaokongzhitaderensheng。fanguolai，yaoxuehuilijieyuzhichitadegerenchengzhanghegerenaihao，jiyuduifangchongzukongjian。jianliyigejunhengrongqiadeguanlian，bicibaorongyulijie，gongtongdazaoyigewenxindejia。

　　付出与细心：坚持不懈的勤奋

　　wanhuilaogongshiyigexuyaotourushijianyunaixindiquanguocheng。buyaoqidailijijianxiao，fanershijianchibuxiediqinfen。genjujijizhudongdexingdongyuzhenchengqingganbiaoshu，jianjiandijianliqilianggerenzhijiangengjiangudeqiaoliang。

　　zenyangwanhuilaogong，wanhuilaogongbushiyicuerjiude，bixunidefuchuquanmiandebianhua。danzhiyaoniweichizhenxinshiyi、zhenchenghelianghaodexintai，jianxinnimendeguanxiaiqinghuizaicifenshaoxiaqu。jilao，goutongjiaoliu、xinrenhezunzhongshifujianhunyinshenghuodeguanjiansuozai，genjugongtongfendou，dajiajiangshiqixingfukuaile。