冷眼观爱：女生不能贪图男友的跪舔

　　laogongchuguimamawozenmeban，dangmamafaxianlaogongchuguishi，tamianlinyixiliedeneixinzhengtuohedanyou。takenengnengbeitongkuyupanbianqingxusuonianguo，sangshiduihunyinderenkeheguishugan。danshi，mamamianduizheiyangdejiongjingbingbugudu，tanengxunqiuxinlifudaodezhichi，hezhangfuzhenchenghuihua，zhangwochuguideyuanyin，tongshihaixuyaoguanxinzijidexiangfayuxuqiu。zhonggouhunyinxuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli，danshitongguoxianghujiaoliuyulijie，mamahaiyoujihuizhongxinhuifuhunyinwendinghemeihao，xunzhaoxindeweilaifazhanfangxiang。

　　jianshu: danglaopofajuelaogongdechuguishi，nvshenghuishenxianshenshenditongkuyuyihuodangzhong。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，tayaomianduibingchulizhuduowenti，yixunzhaozhongxinhuifujiazhongxingfudefangxiang。

　　1. 揭露实情，接受现实

　　laogongchuguimamawozenmeban，danghuozhilaogongchuguixiaoxideshihou，qizibixubaochilixing、baochilixing。tanengxuanzeheshidejihuihefangfa，hezhangfutanchengxiangdai，qingtuneixindekuchuhedanyou，bingyaoqiulaogongbiaoshuchuguideyuanyinhedongyin。jieshouxianshibingjielushishishijiejuewentidiyibu。

　　2. 寻求外界适用

　　qizibingbugudu，tanengxunqiuqinpenghaoyou、xinlixuezixunshihuohunyinzhidaoquanweizhuanjiadezhichihexiezhu。zheizhongrennengjiyukeguanxingdeyijianjianyi，xiezhuqizizhenglisilu，yingduizijidexinqing，zaiciyingzaozijishenghuoyuweilai。hunyinchuxianwenti，waijieshiyongshibukehuoquede，youliyuqizinenggougenghaodijiejuejiongjing。

　　3. 探寻内心要求

　　qiziyingdangzhuyizijideneixinyaoqiuhetihui。taxuyaojizijiyixieshijianyukongjian，renzhensikaozijiduiyuhunyindeqidaijiyaoqiu，yijizijigerentishenghemanzugan。tanengtongguotanxunneixinpingheng，canjiachengzhangjiaoyuhuodong，laizhongsuzijiderenshengmubiaohesixiang。

　　4. 沟通与重建信任

　　xiufuhunyinbixubicigongtongfendou，youqishizaigoutongyuzhongjianxinrencengmian。qizikeyikaolvhezhangfukaizhanzhenchengdeduitan，bazijidexiangfayuxuqiuchuandijita。yucitongshi，laogongyeyingdangyishidaozijidebuzhengque，bingqieyuanyicaiyongjijizhudongdexingweilaizhengjiuhunyin。fuqijiangoujianqixianghufuchiyulijiedeqianti，caikeyimanmanfujianqirentonghexiangduiwendingdehunyinguanlian。

　　5. 寻求技术专业协助

　　jiaruqizifajuemeifaduziyirenjiejuehunyinkunjing，huoshibicidefenqibunengdedaoconggenbenshangjiejue，neiyangxunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhushiyigezhengquedexuanze。hunyinzhidaohexinlizixunjigoukeyitigongyizhanshifuwu，xiezhufuqiliangrenzhangwowentidebenzhi，bawoyouxiaogoutonghejiejuemaodunjiqiao，jinerfujianjiankangdeshenghuohunyinguanlian。

　　结束语

　　laogongchuguimamawozenmeban，dangqiziyingduilaogongchuguishi，tasuoyudaodetongkuyuyihuoshibukehushi。danshi，genjujielushiqing、xunqiuwaijieshiyong、tanxunneixinyaoqiu、goutongyuzhongjianxinren，jiqixunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhu，qizihaiyoujihuizhongsuzijidehunyinyushenghuo，xunzhaozaicixingfudefangxiang。buguanxianjintiaoxuanshixiubuhunyinhaishilikai，douyaoqiziyingyongjieshouxianshi，jiandingbuyidexunqiuzijideaiqing。