老公出轨近两年，我该怎么挽救婚姻？

　　yanjiuchuguinanrendexinli，qianshedaozhongduofanzayaosu。youyixienanrenhenyoukenengyouyuzishenqiangliebumanhuoshixunzhaoshenmiganerxianruchuguidejudong，erlingyixiezeyoukenengbeiwaijieyinyousuoyingxiang。chuguinanrendexinlihenyoukenengcunzaiduizizun、chengjiugandezhuiqiu，yeyoukenengshixinggefangmianbuwenhuoshibunengmanzuneixindeshencengcixuqiu。zhangwochuguinanrendexinli，keyibangzhuwomengenghaodilejiehechulizheiyifuzaqiemingandewenti，jinerweihubaoyangaiqinghehunyinwending。

　　chuguinanrendexinlinengshiduofangmiande，qianshedaofanzadongji、qingganyugerenxingwei。zaiyanjiuzheiyiwentiyiqian，womenyinggaimingqueyidian，meiyigechuguinanrendexianxiangquanshiyuzhongbutongde，meiyouyizhongjiandanjieshi。danshi，womenyaocongzheijigefangmianqulejieyufenxichuguinanrendexinli。

　　内心强烈不满与追求刺激

　　chuguinanrenkenengyinyinyueyuejuedehunyinshenghuohuolianghaogoutongdemouleibumanyi。zheileibumanyinenggoulaiziduozhongyaosu，lirurichangshenghuozhongdeyali、jiatingchengyuanguanxidefenqi、gongzuobushunlideng。youyixienanrendouhuixuanzechuguilaixunzhaoxinxianganhecijixing，xiwangyonghunhouchuguilaimibuneixindekumen。zheizhongzuofatongchangshiyizhongtuolixianshidexingshi，tamenxiwanggenjuyuqishuotarendeguanxidedaoyizhongzaicidianrandereqing。

　　自尊与成就感的追求

　　chuguinanrenzhongdeyibufenzhuyaoshiweilemanzuzijizixinxinhemanzuganerxuanzelechugui。tamenyexuganjuezijizaihunyinshenghuozhongwufadedaochongzudezhongshihexinren，chuguichengweiyizhongbiaoxianzijimeilideyidefangfa。zheileixinlidongjilaiyuanyuneixindebuanheduiwaibupinggudegaoduzhongshi，tamenxiwangyongyutarendeguanxilaihaowuyiwenzishenjiazhi。

　　性格特征与内心深层次需求

　　yixiechuguinanrenkenengchuxianxinggefangmianbuwenhuoshineixinshencengcidexuqiu。tamenyexuquefazilvheshiminggan，henrongyibeiwaijieyinyousuoyaobaibuding。ciwai，yixienanrenkenengchuxianyuxingxiangguanwenti，liruxinglidedadaoguoduohuoxingxingqushangdechabie，yejianghuicujintaxuanzechuguidejudong。zheizhongxinggetezhengheneixinxuqiudechuxian，rangtamenhenrongyishoudaocijifanyingchanshengdeyingxiang，kenenghuidaozhichugui。

　　renzhihechulichuguinanrendexinli，xuyaochongfenkaolvzheizhongfuzaqieduoyanghuadeyaosu。womenyinggaijinyibuguanxinnanrenmenneixindexuqiuyuqinggan，qudajianjiankangdeshenghuogoutongyuguanlian，bangzhuqitanxunbijiaoshihedejiejuefangfa。yucitongshi，yexuyaokaolvnvrendexuqiuhetihui，chuangzaohexiedehunyinshenghuoziranhuanjing，congyuantoushangfangfanhejiejuechuguiwenti。zheijiuxuyaobicigongtongfendouyulijie，yichuangjianyizhongzhenshi、zhenchenghechongchizhejingpeideguanlian。zuihou，weiyoutongguobicilijieyuzhichi，dajiacaikeyichuangzaoyigeqiangjing、xiangduiwendingdeaiqinghehunyin。