情感咨询：孕期老公防着我，我应该离婚吗？

　　liangrenzaiqifendezhengchaozhong，xintaiwufapingjing，zuihouyi“chaojiashuofenshou”deyujudadaogaodian。zheiyiduanzanxingermengliedeyishunjiandinghaoletamenzhijiandezuihoujieguo。chaojiashi，huohuasijian，bicimanmaxingshanghai，shenshendicitenglebicizhijiandeneixin。zaiganqingwufawanjiubianyuan，tamenxuanlebicizhijiandeganqingshuoyishengzaijian。zheiyichangchaojiachenglefenshoudedianfushichuangxin，tamenjuedingwanbizheiyiduanjiuchanbuqingzhijiandeguanxi，zhujianfenbiezhanxindeshenghuo。suirantongchushangxin，dantamenyexuhuidaofenshouyihouzhaodaoheshidexingfuyubaituo。

　　矛盾升级

　　chaojiameiduiqinglvdouhuiqinshenjinglideyizhongxingshi。dangzhengchaoehuadaoyidingchengdu，youshizaisuonanmianjiangchufenshou。chaojiashihoudeqingxubianhuajingchangzaochenglixingdesikaoyugoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuejiannan。bicizhijiandereqinggaozhang，yancimenglie，xiangaixiangsha。danshi，heairenzaochengzhengduoshi，womenchangchangbunengwanquankongzhihaozijideqingxu，zheishihoukenengshuochuhouhuidehua，jiangchaojiashengjichengfenshoudechengdu。

　　言语造成的伤害

　　zaizhengchaohuanjiezhong，biciweilenengbiaodazijixiangfaheqinggan，tongchangbujihouguodixuanzeshangrendeyanci。zheizhongweihaixingdeyanyu，suishiqingxufaxie，queyoushiduibicideyizhongpanbian。yancizhongjiangongji，shishuangfangguanlianyufajinzhangmingan。chaojiakaishideshihou，kenengzhishiweilenengnengrangduifangqingchuzijidebumanyi，quezaibuzhibujuezhongshanghaidaoduifangdexin。

　　情感边缘

　　“chaojiashuofenshou”zheihuafeichangrongyibianchengqingganbianyuandazhuanzhe。danglianggerendezhengchaoshengjichengbukewanhuichengdu，dangsunhaizaoyishencengcixinli，fenshoubianchengleweiyidexuanze。zaichaojiadeguochengdangzhong，yexulianggerenyijingshiqubicizhijianaiqingdexinxin，wufajixuyunyingxialai。chaojiaqineisuochengxianchudelengmomoshenggan，rangganqingmanmanlisanbianliang，jinermaixiangliekaibianyuan。

　　吵架的思考

　　fenshoubingbudengyunantihuiconggenbenshangjiejue。chaojiashuofenshoudeyishunjian，bixubicipingjingxialai，shenzhongkaolv。fenshoubujinjinshiqingganchedijieshu，gengshiyicijihuiqusikaoyugenggai。huiwangchaojiadeyuanyinjifangfa，zhaodaozaochengnantizaochengdegenbenyuanyin，xunzhaojiejuedefangfa。weilefangbianjiejuemaodun，chuangjianjiankangdeshenghuoyuyangoutongjiqiao，duizishengenduifangdoushifeichangbiyaode。

　　复建调解

　　chaojiabingbudengyuwanbi，fanershiyigexindekaishi。fenshouhou，liangrenhaiyoujihuiyingduineixindemimanghetongku，zhongxinsikaobicizhijiandeyoushiyulieshi。jiarulianggerenyiranshenailingyifang，bingjianxinnantinenggoubeixiubu，neiyangweilenengfujianguanlian，diaojieshibukequeshaodeyibu。manmanchuangjianxianghuxinren、zunzhongyuzhichengdejiben，genjugoutongyuqinfen，zaicidianranbicizhijiandeaidehuoyan。

　　分手的启发

　　chaojiashuofenshoushiyizhongjiduanhuadexingshi，danshiyeshiqinglvjianyixieqingkuangmeifaraokaideyigeshizilukou。tatixingzhedajiazaixiangchudeguochengzhongyaoxuehuigoutongyurangbu，fangzhirangzhengchaoshengjichengfenshou。yucitongshi，fenshouyeshiyigebaoguijingyan，yerangwomenzhenxiaiqing，gengjiazhongshibicizhijiandetiyanyuxuqiu。bulunshimaixiangfenshouhuoshidiaojie，doujiwomendailailerenshengdaoluheqingganlideqifayuchengzhang。