情感咨询：夫妻感情破裂，我应该选择离婚还是挽回？

　　chedifenshouzenmelianxita，fenshouhou，henduoshihouyiranxiwangyulingyifangbaochilianluo，keshiyouhaipayingxiangdaotarendeshenghuo。wanquanfenshouhou，yinggaizenmehetajianlilianxini？shifougaizaicibaochilianxi，huozhejiduifangyiduanshijianlengjingfenxi？meiyigezhuangkuangdouyousuobutong，yexukeyigenjugongtongdepengyouhuoshishejiaomeitilailianluo，danyaoshikelijieduifangdejuece。buguanzenyang，baochilixinghechengshushizhongyao，jiejinquanlibimianercishanghai，jibianshizaiduandiaolianluodeguochengdangzhong。

　　fenshouhou，ruguonixiangyaoheduifangbaochilianluo，daduoshiyinweibeishanghaimeimoqu、huozhexiangmibuyihan。danwanquanfenshouhou，zenyanghetajianlilianxijingchengleyigenandian。xiabianjiangcongbutongjiaodutaolunzheizhongqingkuang。

　　尊重对方的决策

　　chedifenshouzenmelianxita，zaifenshoushi，bicitongchangjinglileyifankaolvdaohejiaoliu，quedingtarufenkaidelumian。jiranbicizhijianyongyouqueding，jiuyingdanglijieduifangdetiaoxuan。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，quzhudongzhaotayexujiuhuixiandemangzhuanghemieshitaqueding。yiner，wanquanfenshouhou，yidingyaoxianjiduifangyiduanshijianlengjingfenxi，rangshuangfangnengwendingdeshenghuo，zhongxinguihuazishen。

　　根据共通的朋友联络

　　youshi，zaifenshouyihou，zhaoyixiegongtongdepengyoulailianxitakenengshiyigehaobanfa。genjupengyoudejiangjiehuoshijuhuishi，jianjiedehetaweichiyixielianluo。zheizhongfangfaburongyijibicichanshengbushaogongzuoyali，yucitongshiyehuirangnizhangwotayixiexiankuang，jianqingyixiecuobaigan。

　　依靠社交媒体

　　zairujindeshejiaomeitishiqi，womentongguoyixieshejiaowangluopingtailailianxita。danshi，yidingyaoshenzhongkandai。bubipinfandejitafaxinxihuoshipingjiatadongtaixing，yifangjibicidailaimafanhuoshigongzuoyali。keguanzhutayixieshejiaomeitizhanghu，jianjiexingzhangwotayixiedongtaixing，tongshibaozhengshidangdejianju。chucizhiwai，yidingyaozhuyibubibeitaqingkuangsuojiban，zhaogenghaodeshenghuozhongxindiancaishizhongyaode。

　　接受现实与成长

　　wanquanfenshouhou，zuizhongyaodejiushiyaodongdejieshouxianshibingxiangqianzou。bulunshiduifangtiaoxuanhuoshifenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin，quanshixianshishenghuodeyibufen。yuqishuojiujieyiwang，bibushangjiangxinsifangzaigerentishenghefazhanzhong。xunzhaogerenxingquaihao，pengyouhuojiarenpeiban，jinxingyixieyangguangxiangshangdezhutihuodong，rangzijineixinmanmanhuiguipingjing。

　　花费时间思考与自我反思

　　fenshouhou，zailianxitayiqian，huaxieshijiansikaoyufansiziji。gaoqingchuzijixihuande，jiqiweishenmexiangbaochilianluo。henduoshihoubixuyigerenmianduineixinshenchudekunhuohetihui，zhongxinsikaozijideqingxuhedongyin。jinyouzaixinzhongzhenzhenzhengzhengquedinglezijideguandianyihou，caikeyizuochugengmingzhidexuanze。

　　chedifenshouzenmelianxita，wanquanfenshouhou，lianxitayoukenengshineixindeyizhongjiyuheyikao，keshiwomenyeyinggaigaoqingchu，weichishidangdeweizhihelijieduifangdejueceshizuiguanjiande。bulunshigenjugongtongdepengyoulianluohuoshiyikaoshejiaomeiti，yeyaozhuyimeijilingyifangdailaimafan，tongshihaiyaogengjiazhongshizijichengzhangyufazhan。zuihou，jieshouxianshi、xunzhaozhenzhengdeziwo，caisuanshichengjiuziwohezouxiangxingfudeguanjiansuozai。